Relationships are vital to our emotional health and well-being. Yet, Sometimes we tend to take them for granted and create an opportunity for them to breakdown. Communication, the two-way kind, is the factor most important to maintaining healthy relationships. Too bad we are not schooled in how to be a good communicator! Not surprisingly then, you can feel blindsided when you're sweetheart hits you with the "breakup speech" and pulls the plug on your relationship. You are in shock and disbelief thinking "Didn't we have a future together? What did I do wrong?"
Your plunging emotions put you in a kind of fog and confusion. Then the loneliness hits and your instinct is to either chase after your partner OR hideout and wait for his/her call saying it was all a mistake. So what should you do? I've been there myself. You want so badly to reunite, but you don't know the way to accomplish it or even how to begin. You're desperately searching for how to win love back!! You also might be questioning if it's even possible.
Although you may not see it in this moment, the answer is IT IS POSSIBLE! Clear your head and really ponder your past experience with friends, relatives, and acquaintances. And, don't forget the celebrity world. If you give it a good going through, you'll realize getting back together happens all the time. Regardless of how complicated or screwed up or how long the separation, there are successful repairings. What does that mean for you? It means, take heart because you can have a second chance at how to win back love---if you have the desire and are willing to do it the right way.
Wondering how to win love back, to win your love back into your life? First, begin by creating some emotional independence. Huh?What?! Big words that just mean you need to put some space between the two of you. Yes, it may seem counterintuitive. But, consider how people suddenly prize what they cannot have. I'll explain more about that later. How do you create the idea of that space? You will write a short letter to your ex mate. It must be handwritten. This letter is your "Opening Move". The idea of the letter is to briefly agree with the breakup. Let me repeat that. In the letter you are going to agree with the breakup. Sounds crazy doesn't it? The great thing is this works! Consider this, people want and pursue what they cannot have. In essence your letter is saying "I'm moving on". Click here for an example of words you can put in the letter to achieve the best effect.
The letter will get you started, but there IS more to do plus a few things you don't want to do. See, I told you it would require some effort to win your love back. The Good News is none of it is difficult and can end up making your bond even stronger in the end. The reward is worth it! If you are anxious to know more click here for some quick do's and don'ts (again, fr.ee)
More to come....
